Тема: German woman in Russia : experiences with Russian men vs western european Men

Эмма, я думаю, когда встречаешь в жизни человека, которого действительно полюбишь, то в отношениях будет и страсть и любовь, уважение и не нужно искать мужчине и женщине кого-то на стороне для секса и быть свободными. В этом не будет необходимости. Хотя многие мужчины изменяют, ищут разнообразия, которого не дополучают в семье. А в настоящих психологически здоровых семьях таких проблем не бывает, потому что их связывает большее-ЛЮБОВЬ. А если по другому-то это просто сухой расчёт (взаимообмен чего-то-деньги, положение, и т.д. а секс ищут на стороне и называют это свободными отношениями). Согласны?

Sunny,

I agree but things are not so simple I guess.

for example, my friend, she is german as me, is married for a long time, with children, beloved husband. She is 44yo.
She loves her husband of course, and respect him a lot. But I know she has some fantasy with men sometime. And she said without it, probably I would be not so "quiet", and maybe relationship with my husband would be different, ....
Girls, what is your opinion ?
As a woman, I think the most important is not to fall in routine, and till now, I met rarelly men who were able to make me feel in desire for a long period....
Now, I think to find good husband, I will love him for sure, my children too, but I cant promise I will not after few years have lover....с любовью_
In nordic country like in sweden, couple are very opened on this point, and nobody is shocked.

what do you think ?

Эмма да вы развратница!!!
Хотя я тоже не люблю скучать))) да и я не отрицаю отношения с несколькими людьми одновременно)) я люблю секс каждый день, но увы, мужчины не всегда готовы к этому...
я люблю все красивое... люблю цветы.... обожаю когда мне дарят красивые букеты.... так же я выращиваю много цветов дома)))
а вы Эмма чем увлекаетесь??? какое ваше хобби???

кстати приглашаю вас на выставку цветов:Международная Выставка «ЦветыЭкспо-2011» в следующую субботу, пообщаемся с вами о мужчинах, выпьем кофе......вы согласны?

I am not a nympho, I am normal woman with desires :)
I like to paint landscape, I like sun, see, and what is beautiful as any woman :)

I am going to Germany for the week end to visit my parents, so maybe we can go another day ? would be interesting to discuss together I guess :)

Эмма с вами очень интересно, тем более, что вы западная женщина и знаете западных мужчин, и сможете дать интересный совет... как покорить сердце западного мужчины))
мне очень нравятся испанцы, как и вам.... о французах... могу сказать у меня был не очень приятный опыт общения.. он оказался вруном)) с англичанином у меня были замечательные отношения, мы сейчас остались с ним друзьями..
но негативный опыт, тоже опыт....

Yes, I like spanish men too !!! very muc с любовью_
But I am not sure I will marry with spanish guy, most of them are unfaithful, they like too much women :)
I would prefer swedish men, they are family oriented, its their culture to grow children. The problem is they are very opened, women as well, so its usual to have sex behind
I read the other topic about this french man (?), I guess its this one. I dont know your story with him, but as I understand the opinions are very different, for some of girls, he is like a hero of Love :) maybe he was sincere or not, maybe he just changed his mind,but the girls who were waiting for a visa are really not fair. I would be him, I would disapear immediately !
For me, the begining of relationship is based on feelings, thats all. Ok, after year, you can consider to support mutually, but till no wedding....nothing !
I never put a judgement on somebody, I mean thanks to their reputation :
Russian are unfaithful or drinker, spanish are hot, italian crazy, french good lovers, bla bla bla. As well, its important to understand why somebody did like that...
example : one friend, Inga, she met a man. he was extremely handsome, and she imagined her future with her, she started to promise him to move with him( he was living in other city of Germany)
They had sex, she was very disapointed, she said, "no, my future is not this guy". And she disapeared from him
so what is your conclusion : she was lying ? she did right ? she should explained (but was to explained as she was asking to him!) ?
It was 2 years ago, till this time, maybe she met 12 guys...she is still changing....
I hope you understand what I mean

Dear Emma, why did you say that "italian crazy"?
may be you met bad italian..... my boyfriend is the best in the world!!! he is good lover)))

Happy for you :))
yes, Italian are good lovers, but control him carefully....they usually look around if they dont have any occupation :)
How old u are ? and your italian etalon ?

thank you Emma :)
soon my birthday and i will 31 y.o. my boyfriend is 38 y.o. :)
all men look around if they dont have any occupation.....
and your man etalon ?

I would say I am currently single, I have relationship with guy, but I know its not for life, its not my man.
Do u plan to marry with him ? how do you see your future ? In Italy or in Russia ?