Тема: German woman in Russia : experiences with Russian men vs western european Men

if you are currently satisfied with you Italian future husband, no need :)

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Сообщение от Olga100

Well, there is no flowers, no souvenirs from France, nothing...in this point russian men are very different. And I think in theire heads there are only thoughts about sex and food, nothing more, they are not very clever and was not interesting topics to speak about, I will never meet with somebody of this nation

food ? what do you mean ? they are eating too much ?
why do you think they are not clever ? its a great nation, not so good as Germany of course ! :)

Emma, about your question. Yes, I had relation with Russian and foreign men. Yes, some men wanted to get married with me: 1 from the USA, 1 from Germany and Russian (Russian was for a long time ago). Will tell you about man from the USA. This man is good person, I beleave he will be a good husband and he is family man. I had relations with him for almost 2 years, but what I did not like is that he does not show any interest for sex. Sex is very important for relations, are you agree Emma? This man wanted to come to get married with me in this August (we met two times in Russia and in the USA) and also he met my mother. He sent us flowers and also paid for my trip to USA. We never had sex and also he did not show any interest for that. And this is very strange for me. He said we will have sex after wedding. But I refused to get married with him. One reason is this and another one- that I do not feel anything for him else, just like as a friend. Another reason, I have a good job here and if I will get married with him and will go to the USA- I do not know when I will find a job and do not want to depend of him. So decided to stay here. Yes, I agree with you, that it is not good to have sex in the first or second meeting, but sometimes you just want it and like the person and when he lives very far, maybe you do not need to wait so long - what do you think?

Gruss Gott Angel :)

well, man who doesnt want sex its abnormal for me, you were right not to marry him ! :)
but once more, what you are waiting from a man has to be vrry clear : if this man would be good lover, would you accept to marry and to go to state ? I think its no problem to find job there. where does he live ?
Angel, of course sex is important, but if you are expecting serious relationship, if you really like the guy, wait a little, dont jump to the bed too quickly. Let him seduce you and to prove by act that he really like you, its not garanty of course. Dont believe in word. Most of people are sincere speaking about future, and then they change their mind, because they understand they need somebody different, because there is one problem ...
example : one of my friend is married with a guy for long time. The guy is not very clean, I mean, smoking too much, and smell not fresh, I think you understand what I mean
He is very handsome, good man, but for me this detail is real problem
Do you have a man now ?

Emmabella, yes, I hate smoking men too. I also do not like when men do not care about how they look like like this American man for example. This American man lives in Hawaii. If he is good lover, probably, yes, I would go there, because I want to create family and to have children. I am not sure that I can find equally well paid job as here, but I would risk to go there, Emma :)
Another man whom wanted to get married - was German man- and I had similar problem with him. We met 3 times. 2 times in Germany and 1 time in Moscow- and no sex, can you imagine Emmabella?
This man did not pay for my trip and I paid myself. For the 3rd meeting he came to Moscow and said that want to get married with me. Also I met his friends and parents in Germany (he lives in a village near small town). First times I liked him but finally I came to conclusion that it is bad idea to be together. Because he is not educated, what ever I ask him he does not know anything. He is 40 y.o. and did not do anything in his life, lives with his parents. My salary is 2 times higher than him, so decided not to marry him too. Emma, what do you think if you have a higher salary several times than your man, do you accept it? Do you accept not educated men with whome you have nothing to speak about?

well, Angel,

not educated man doesnt mean stupid, do you agree ?
my sister in Germany is married is a worker, he is assembling cars. His education is not high at all, but he is very good man, clever and open minded.
I know people who finished high school, usw...bla bla bla, they feel very confident and arrogant, but for me very stupid. Intelligent people dont need to promote themselves.
Tell me, you even didnt kiss or touch with this man ? seems strange to me ? where he is living in Germany , interesting to me , its my mother's Land !

he lives near Osnabruke in a village, where are you from our dear Emmabella? I am agree that it depends of person. He only travels to Spain and nowhere else, and has no any interests at all. What ever I ask him - he does not know anything and has no interest to know.

Angel,

I am from one big city of Germany in the south east :)

Angel, why have you been 2 times to Germany if you understood its not your man ? better to stop, to congratulate each other. Life is so short, not good to waste our time on vain affair. We are women, time is flying faster for us than for men, dont forget

Сообщение от Angel N 2

Emmabella, yes, I hate smoking men too. I also do not like when men do not care about how they look like like this American man for example. This American man lives in Hawaii. If he is good lover, probably, yes, I would go there, because I want to create family and to have children. I am not sure that I can find equally well paid job as here, but I would risk to go there, Emma :)
Another man whom wanted to get married - was German man- and I had similar problem with him. We met 3 times. 2 times in Germany and 1 time in Moscow- and no sex, can you imagine Emmabella?
This man did not pay for my trip and I paid myself. For the 3rd meeting he came to Moscow and said that want to get married with me. Also I met his friends and parents in Germany (he lives in a village near small town). First times I liked him but finally I came to conclusion that it is bad idea to be together. Because he is not educated, what ever I ask him he does not know anything. He is 40 y.o. and did not do anything in his life, lives with his parents. My salary is 2 times higher than him, so decided not to marry him too. Emma, what do you think if you have a higher salary several times than your man, do you accept it? Do you accept not educated men with whome you have nothing to speak about?

I forgot to tell you that its not so important if your man or husband earns less money than you, if you are happy like this, where is the problem ?

Where are you now in your life ? do you have new boyfriend ?

No problems at all. But in this case things are more complex. I wrote you already I guess :) Yes, I have boyfriend. Your activity in this site impress us Emmabella, when do you work and meet your boyfriend? It seems to us you are arround o'clock in this forum ..